História: Conversas delicadas entre pessoas

Nível: B2

A difficult conversation

Nina shared an apartment with Leo, who often invited friends over late at night. The visits were friendly, but the music sometimes continued after midnight. Nina had an important exam, so she decided to talk before she became angry. I was wondering if we could talk about the noise after ten, she began.

Explaining the impact

Leo looked surprised because he had not realized how clearly the sound travelled. Nina explained that she was struggling to sleep and study. I understand that you want to see your friends, but I need a quiet place before the exam. Leo said that he appreciated the explanation and wanted to find a fair solution.

A practical agreement

Could we keep the music inside and finish by eleven? It might be easier if we used the back room and closed the windows. Leo agreed, and Nina offered to tell him in advance when she had an exam. They both understood that the new boundary would need cooperation.

Notas de vocabulário

• I was wondering if — Abre a conversa com linguagem indireta.
• I understand ..., but ... — Reconhece a intenção do outro sem abandonar a necessidade própria.
• It might be easier if — Apresenta uma alternativa negociável.

Prática com a história

1. Suavize: Lower the music after ten.
2. Reconheça e mantenha o limite: I know you want friends here. I need sleep.
3. Ofereça alternativa: Use the back room.